Convenience Is Stealing Our Community (And We’re Letting It)
Delivery apps, AI, and “frictionless” everything promised to give us time back - but what we traded away were the very skills and social rituals that make life feel full. This piece looks at how we’ve started choosing convenience over connection, why de-skilling is a queer issue as much as a cultural one, and what it would look like to rebuild a life that requires us again.
Love, Out Loud (Even When We Disagree)
What if happiness isn’t found in the dream house, the perfect partner, or the algorithm that promises you connection, but in something far less glamorous? A coffee shared with strangers. A difficult truth spoken with kindness. A ritual repeated often enough that it becomes belonging. We think joy is a climax — a wedding, a promotion, a viral moment. But the science (and the stories of ordinary people) keep showing us that happiness is much quieter, more human, and infinitely closer than we realise.
Dry(ish) Is the New Deep: How Drinking Less (or Not at All) Gave Me My Life Back
I used to outsource confidence to a drink. Quitting didn’t turn me saintly — it made me steadier. With more people rethinking alcohol (and data backing the shift), this is the sober-ish playbook that rebuilt my energy, friendships, and self-respect: morning anchors, clean-fun rituals, social plans that don’t revolve around booze, and a kinder way to “start again.” No preaching — just practical steps for a life that feels like yours again.
When It Feels Like No One Would Miss You — Finding a Way Back to Yourself
A raw reflection on loneliness, queer community, and what it means to keep showing up — even when it feels like no one would miss you. We share how Jung’s pillars, modern research, and the story behind Get Out offer a gentle roadmap for building connection, purpose, and a life worth staying for.
In Trust We Begin: How Trust Transforms Loneliness Into Connection
Loneliness is often framed as a lack of company—but what if it’s actually a lack of trust? In this deeply personal and evidence-backed piece, we explore how broken trust shapes queer disconnection, why epistemic trust matters more than we realise, and how rebuilding trust (in ourselves and others) might be the most powerful antidote to isolation. With insights from So Lonely, Arthur C. Brooks, Esther Perel, and lived experience, this article offers practical strategies for cultivating meaningful, resilient connection.
Australia Chooses Connection: Because Culture Wars Won’t Save Us
In a world that often feels divided, Australia is quietly choosing something better: connection. From creative expression to casual conversation, our shared humanity is holding the line against cynicism, culture wars, and loneliness — one friendship at a time.
From Ketamine to Connection — My Journey from Escaping to Embracing Life
Once, I chased every possible way to escape my own life — alcohol, party drugs, even ketamine. Now, two years sober, I’ve discovered the ultimate hack isn’t found in a pill or a lab. It’s found in showing up for your life and your community, fully present.
Finding Confidence and Connection in a World That Won’t Slow Down
Confidence isn’t something you’re born with — it’s something you build. And in a world that won’t slow down, balancing connection, self-assurance, and social energy is more important than ever. How do we create meaningful relationships without burning out? It starts with rethinking confidence, reclaiming third spaces, and understanding the limits of social energy.
Reclaiming Connection: Why Loneliness Doesn’t Have to Be Inevitable
Loneliness isn’t just about being alone—it’s about how we connect (or don’t). Instead of drowning in the narrative that disconnection is inevitable, Reclaiming Connection is about taking back control, stepping away from our screens, and choosing real, meaningful interactions. Whether it’s making friends as an adult, building connections at work, or breaking free from the doomscrolling trap, this piece is a reminder that community doesn’t just happen—you create it.
Why Do We Feel Lonely in a World Full of Connection?
Loneliness isn’t just about being alone; it’s about feeling emotionally disconnected — even in relationships or social settings. Explore how meaningful connections, authenticity, and community can help combat loneliness in a hyper-connected yet isolating world.
Your Ultimate LGBTQIA+ Community Calendar Is Here! 🌈
Explore over 500 LGBTQIA+ events nationwide with the Get Out Community Calendar! Built by the community, for the community, this dynamic resource is your ultimate guide to connection, celebration, and belonging. 🌈
Tending Your Mental Health Garden: Building Resilience and Connection in 2025
As we step into 2025, nurturing your mental health requires intentional care. From recognising triggers and fostering connections to building resilience through consistent habits, here’s how to cultivate a fulfilling and connected year.
The Paradox of Loneliness: Why We Need Real Connections, Not Just More Friends
Loneliness doesn’t discriminate — even those with plenty of friends can feel isolated. Drawing from my personal journey, this article explores the hidden behaviours that fuel loneliness and how Get Out is helping redefine connection and community in today’s digital world.
Feeling Lonely This Christmas? You Are Not Alone
The festive season often highlights loneliness for many. Discover the profound effects of loneliness, inspiring community solutions, and how simple acts of kindness can transform isolation into belonging this Christmas.
Who Is Get Out For? Building a New Community Together
Get Out was created for LGBTQIA+ individuals and allies craving deeper connections, a break from the status quo, and a community that truly feels like home. Whether you're in a bustling city or a regional area, seeking friends, or just tired of superficial interactions, Get Out is here to build something meaningful with you.