The Real-Life Reset

The Real-Life Reset

The less time I spend online, the more my life feels like mine — better sleep, warmer friendships, finished projects. Research shows why: screens promise connection but often fuel loneliness. This piece swaps performance for presence, with five “micro-freedoms” to trade screen time for real time (device sabbath, outdoors by default, one ongoing group, embrace friction, host tiny). The algorithm can wait. Your people — including you — can’t.

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The Strength of Not Taking It Personally

The Strength of Not Taking It Personally

In this reflection, we explore what it really means to stop taking the bait in a world wired for outrage — especially for LGBTQIA+ people who’ve learned to brace for judgment. From workplace digs to family jabs, this piece blends lessons on self-control with the quiet power of choosing where your energy goes — and where it doesn’t.

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Nostalgia for Something You've Never Had: Why We're Longing for Connection Offline

Nostalgia for Something You've Never Had: Why We're Longing for Connection Offline

There’s a growing ache in our hyperconnected world—a nostalgia for moments that were never ours. Eye contact. Shared laughter. A spark not filtered through a screen. But what we’re really missing isn’t the past. It’s real connection. Offline. Unfiltered. Human.

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Reclaiming Connection: Why Loneliness Doesn’t Have to Be Inevitable

Reclaiming Connection: Why Loneliness Doesn’t Have to Be Inevitable

Loneliness isn’t just about being alone—it’s about how we connect (or don’t). Instead of drowning in the narrative that disconnection is inevitable, Reclaiming Connection is about taking back control, stepping away from our screens, and choosing real, meaningful interactions. Whether it’s making friends as an adult, building connections at work, or breaking free from the doomscrolling trap, this piece is a reminder that community doesn’t just happen—you create it.

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Beyond Dating Apps: Finding True Connections in a Digital World

Beyond Dating Apps: Finding True Connections in a Digital World

Discover genuine connections beyond the swipe with 'Beyond Dating Apps: Finding True Connections in a Digital World.' As dating app fatigue rises, especially among LGBTQIA+ individuals, platforms like Get Out offer an alternative focused on building meaningful friendships and supportive communities. Learn how dating app overuse impacts mental health and why more people are seeking community-based experiences for deeper, lasting relationships.

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