The Courage to Change: Reinvention, Decline, and the Joy of Experimenting
What if decline wasn’t the end — but an invitation to begin again? In this thought-provoking piece, we explore how the courage to experiment, shift gears, and redefine success can lead to deeper fulfilment. Drawing on Arthur C. Brooks’ insights and his own lived experience, we challenge the idea that we must cling to peak performance, offering instead a roadmap for growth through reinvention, reflection, and human connection.
The Shift That Saved Me — And Why One Session Might Be Enough to Start Yours
After nearly a decade of drifting through mental health challenges, Get Out founder, Brodie shares the mindset shift that changed everything. Blending personal reflection with evidence from emerging research on single-session therapy, this piece explores how real change starts with small steps — not perfect plans. For anyone who’s ever felt stuck, flat, or quietly overwhelmed, this is your reminder that healing doesn’t always begin with a breakdown. Sometimes, it starts with a decision.
Kindness Isn’t Just Polite — It’s How We Find Each Other
In a world that often prizes hustle over heart, kindness can feel like an afterthought. But new research shows it might be the glue that holds real community together. In this piece, we explore what kindness looks like in queer spaces, the quiet ache of disconnection, and why Get Out is continuing to build tools — like the new volunteer matching platform — that make genuine connection easier. This is not about doing more. It’s about doing what matters.
Where Are My People?
At nearly 40, I’m realising I’ve never really had that lifelong friendship many people seem to take for granted. I’ve always had people around — but not always beside me. Sobriety, shifting values, and the scenic route through life have left me craving something deeper. This is a story about friendship, gay men, and the quiet ache of wondering: Where are my people?
It’s Not Just You: Why Loneliness Feels So Complicated Right Now
Loneliness in 2025 feels more personal, more misunderstood, and—for queer folks—more complex than ever. This heartfelt piece explores how social connection, chronic illness, internalised stigma, and our digital lives are shaping modern loneliness, and why the answer isn’t just more socialising—it’s better, deeper, more intentional community.
Finding Light in the Dark: Lessons from Rebuilding My Life to Kickstart Your New Year
A few years ago, I hit a breaking point — stuck in a cycle of hopelessness and self-pity, I felt like my best days were behind me. Admitting myself to St. Helen’s Hospital for therapy was the turning point that helped me rebuild my life. Now, I’m sharing the lessons I learned to help you kickstart 2025 with purpose and resilience.
Turning Pain into Purpose: The Journey That Inspired Get Out
From battling depression and loss to finding purpose through connection, Get Out was born from my darkest moments. This is my story of resilience, rebuilding, and creating a platform where everyone can find a sense of belonging.
From Struggles to Strength: The Journey of Get Out
The journey of Get Out is a story of personal growth, resilience, and the desire to build a space for genuine connection within the LGBTQIA+ community. From overcoming isolation and struggles with self-identity to embracing vulnerability and the power of community, Get Out was born out of a drive to create a supportive, meaningful platform for those seeking real connections. We're just getting started, and this journey is one we’re writing together.