The Real-Life Reset
The less time I spend online, the more my life feels like mine — better sleep, warmer friendships, finished projects. Research shows why: screens promise connection but often fuel loneliness. This piece swaps performance for presence, with five “micro-freedoms” to trade screen time for real time (device sabbath, outdoors by default, one ongoing group, embrace friction, host tiny). The algorithm can wait. Your people — including you — can’t.
Where Are My People?
At nearly 40, I’m realising I’ve never really had that lifelong friendship many people seem to take for granted. I’ve always had people around — but not always beside me. Sobriety, shifting values, and the scenic route through life have left me craving something deeper. This is a story about friendship, gay men, and the quiet ache of wondering: Where are my people?
The Fine Line of Vulnerability: How Much is Too Much?
Vulnerability is essential, but where’s the line between real connection and oversharing? In a world of curated trauma posts and performative sadness, it’s easy to mistake engagement for genuine support. Get Out was born from a need for something real—meaningful connection beyond dating apps, social validation, and loneliness. Here’s why that matters more than ever.