Do You Believe in Love at First Sight?
Love at first sight sounds like something from the movies — but in a world of dating app fatigue, quick connections, and rising romantic idealism, more people are starting to believe in it again. This piece explores why belief in instant love is rising, how the concept is evolving, and what it means for queer daters navigating solitude, self-worth, and the search for something real. Drawing on personal reflections, research, and the wisdom of Esther Perel, we unpack why modern romance might require less swiping — and more curiosity.
You Don’t Have to Be Alone to Feel Lonely — Loneliness Awareness Week 2025
Loneliness is often misunderstood as a problem faced only by people who are alone. But new research shows many of us feel disconnected even in relationships, families, or crowded social lives. This article, written to mark Global Loneliness Awareness Week (9–15 June), explores the rising health concerns around loneliness, its hidden presence in modern relationships, and how Get Out was founded to offer not just company — but purpose, connection, and joy.
Reclaiming Solitude: How Being Alone Helped Me Find Connection Again
We often confuse solitude with loneliness — and run from both. But in a noisy, hyperconnected world, learning to sit in silence might just be the key to feeling truly seen. This piece explores how stepping back from distraction, performance, and constant connection helped me rediscover a deeper sense of self — and, unexpectedly, build more meaningful relationships.
Nostalgia for Something You've Never Had: Why We're Longing for Connection Offline
There’s a growing ache in our hyperconnected world—a nostalgia for moments that were never ours. Eye contact. Shared laughter. A spark not filtered through a screen. But what we’re really missing isn’t the past. It’s real connection. Offline. Unfiltered. Human.
Beyond the Mirror: Why We Need to Break Free from the Clone Wars
On a recent trip to Sydney, I couldn’t help but notice something — every guy looked like they’d been rolled off the same production line. Stubble, muscles, cropped shirts, and white sneakers. When did standing out become so terrifying? And what are we losing when we trade individuality for the illusion of fitting in?
The 'Ick' Factor: What It Says About Us (and Whether We Can Overcome It)
We’ve all felt it—that sudden, gut-level repulsion that turns attraction into absolute no-go territory. But is the ick really about the other person, or does it say more about us? Maybe it’s not just a dealbreaker but a mirror, reflecting our own fears, expectations, and discomfort with intimacy. What if we could move past it?
Building Better Friendships in 2025: Connection Takes Effort
Friendship in adulthood isn’t effortless — it takes time, intention, and a little creativity. As our lives evolve, so do our friendships, but making meaningful connections in 2025 is still possible. Here’s how to nurture relationships that truly matter.
Ten Years Single: Lessons in Love, Loneliness, and Living Fully
For over a decade, I’ve navigated life single — not dabbling, not settling, just learning to live life more fully and authentically. This time has taught me profound lessons in love, loneliness, and embracing life beyond traditional expectations. It’s not about finding someone to complete me; it’s about discovering the richness of independence, self-discovery, and meaningful connections.
Why Do We Feel Lonely in a World Full of Connection?
Loneliness isn’t just about being alone; it’s about feeling emotionally disconnected — even in relationships or social settings. Explore how meaningful connections, authenticity, and community can help combat loneliness in a hyper-connected yet isolating world.
Reimagining Connection in a Post-Dating-App World
Dating apps once revolutionised connection, but today they’re losing their allure. From ghosting to endless swiping, many feel these platforms prioritise transactions over authenticity. As we seek deeper connections, movements like “slowmance” and community-led meetups are taking centre stage. It’s time to rethink how we meet, grow, and build relationships that truly matter.