Younger Than You Feel, Older Than You Look: Why Time Feels So Weird Right Now
Is it just me, or does everyone feel both 25 and 75 at the same time these days? Drawing on the concept of "subjective age," this piece explores how queer time, personal trauma, and post-pandemic reality warp our internal clocks — and how we can find meaning in the mess.
Still Becoming: On Friendship, Identity, and Starting Again
At nearly 40, I thought I’d be settled — friendships locked in, identity formed, life humming along. But starting again doesn’t mean going backwards. In this reflection, I explore what it means to be in midlife and still becoming — still seeking friendship, still letting go, still learning how to belong. If you’ve ever felt the ache of wanting deeper connection, this one’s for you.
New Year Reflection: Letting Go, Learning, and Looking Ahead
Reflect on 2024, let go of what you can’t change, and set intentions for 2025. Learn how to embrace growth and create meaningful goals.